Well with so many new and expectant Mums and Dads on the site, I thought it might be an idea to start up a 'baby talk' thread, so that we can keep it all in one place and away from all the people who aren't as interested in it as us - which is why I've put it in 'Advice' and not 'General Chat'.

Feel free to share the joys, triumphs, fears and doubts that parenthood brings, as well as any tips you have, or questions. I doubt that between us, there's no experience of childbirth/ childrearing we haven't had, as well as being able to recommend products/ techniques that have helped during pregnancy, breastfeeding, weaning, bottle feeding, sleepless nights etc.

To start off, I have to share that "Little Moo" rolled over from back to front for the first time ever while we were on holiday last week! He's growing up so fast!

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I remember how exciting it was when my guys rolled over. Fun times ahead!

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They do grow up WAY too fast!!! Take lots of pictures! Remember every precious thing. My youngest is 20 but I still have vivid memories of breast feeding her, her tiny hand on my breast and she looked up at me and smiled. It was so sweet.

As they grow the best advice I ever got and I pass on is to talk 'with' them not 'at' them. Listen to what they have to say, they will both amaze and amuse you with the things they come out with.

When my son Ryan was about 4 he ran into the bathroom cause he had to, you know, and I had just gotten out of the shower, and he saw me and commented how " daddy was all naked-up".



not exactly "baby talk" but........

I am so nervous and worried over so many things....is my kid going to be "normal", healthy, happy...most of all, I'm worried over bringing a little ME into the world

My boyfriend and I looked at condos today. I have the option of either moving back to TN or staying here. Honestly, I'd be better off going back to TN because I have a house there...but I'm away from him I have to try to take things one day at a time, because I'm already feeling so overwhelmed and I'm only two months along.

((((Cherrypie))))))

My best advice to you is this: pregnancy gets easier around the 2nd trimester - you'll be less tired and less neurotic, plus other people actually only start treating you like you're actually pregnant once they can see it (annoyingly, because you feel like you want to be treated with kid gloves at this stage and later you'll feel back to your old self again).

I got all my worrying about the birth over with early on, so by the time I was close to giving birth I was pretty accepting of all the possibilities and the thought of going into hospital etc. I know friends who didn't let themselves think about it until a fortnight before, and then panicked. I wouldn't recommend that approach as getting your head right makes the whole experience so much better.

As for 'will my baby be normal'? Every mother worries about that but the stats say that 97% of babies in the UK are born completely normal (I imagine the figures are very similar for the US too) so don't get too terrified by the 'doing x when you're pregnant will cause your baby to be y' but be sensible - give up smoking if you do, limit alcohol to a small amount on special occasions, don't do recreational drugs and eat healthily. You can't do more than that at this stage.

The fact that you're worrying about these things, is the first sign that you're going to be an excellent Mother, but try to keep things in perspective.

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Fruit flies like a banana"

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Is it not an option for him to move with you? I know that is a hard decision but if you do move my advised is think about what is best for you and your baby. oh congrats by the way. And to be honest with you it is not that difficult to be away from someone that you love when your pregnant. This is from experience. I walked out on my ex husband (due to his cheating) when I was 3 weeks pregnant and with an 18 month old in tow also. I was so upset but worrying if I had the flu and taking care of a toddler kept my mind at peace. Then when I really found out I was pregnant well I was so caught up in that so it made it easier because I wasn't always wondering where he was or what he was doing. I know my situation is diffrent than yours but I would at least talk with him about it. Moving that is.

Again...my best advise is to do what is best for you and the baby.

And also even though things are fine now...get custody papers as soon as you can. Just in case something happens later on. Working at the PD I see alot of boyfriend/girlfriend situation and that end up spliting after they have the kid. It then gets ugly and hateful instead of what is best for the kid.

But most of all enjoy it. Make memories. And treat yourself like a queen for the next nine months.

Natalie

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