hehe interesting subject line, huh??

anyways. i'm a virgin, never done ANYTHING except make out, stuff like that. tomorrow, i'm planning on going all the way with my boyfriend (nice b-day present, i think). but... i need help. especially because one of the stops on the Road of No Return is oral sex, and i've never done that either.

i know i should have posted earlier about this, but i'm somewhat of a procrastinator.... so....

PLEASE help me!!! reply ASAP

thanks

also, tips on how to make this a lil easier on me would be greatly appreciated!!!!

~*~freakydeek~*~
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My only advice.. let the emotions take over... take it slow... and above all.. enjoy it... you will NEVER have a first time again... savor it... the pleasure.. the pain... all of it It is allllll worth it


Lucky you .... good luck...

Make sure you are doing this because you want to and feel ready for all the pleasure and entanglements a sexual relationship can bring!

Insist he wear a condom!!!!!!! Having a condom safe lubricant handy is a good idea too!


If something feel right do it...there are no absolutes when it comes to sex. try to relax...take slow deep breaths and let the sensations roll over you.


If you change your mind and decide to hold off...that is ok too!

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There is a wealth of honest and sincere information in the depths of our forum here hun. I hope that this one very special time won’t be diminished by your procrastination.

Get to reading……. QUICK! And my honest best wishes for you. It IS magic.

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Congratulations I hope this will be a magical night that you will remember for the rest of your life.

My only advice is use protection and don’t hold back. If this is someone that you really love then let your heart and soul guide you. Don’t be concerned about the “end result or the climax”. This is not a contest to see who can please who first. Making love is “emotion in motion” (Mae West). The secret to good love making is to relax and enjoy the intimacy instead of the physical act. The mind is the largest sexual organ of the body, stimulate the mind and the body will respond. When two or more (well you may not be ready for that yet) people’s souls connect on an emotional level the bodies can’t help but derive pleasure while giving pleasure. What I am trying to say is just go with what feels right don’t be afraid to tell him where to touch you and also don’t be afraid to ask him what he likes. If you can communicate with out judgment or fear off hurting each others feelings, then you will do just fine.

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Monogamy does not have to mean Monotony

Have him wear a condom, relax and enjoy. If it does not feel right stop and dont rush it. Lots of foreplay will help.

well, thanks to all of you that replied. i appreciate you taking the time to help me out....
i've searched through the forums, and found some things that will DEFINITELY help, in addition to all of the great adive that you guys gave me.
again, thanks a bunch!

to be very frank
you must understand that you will never have first time again, take it cool, but dont go too far.

Freakydeek3000, welcome to Pixies. Guess I'm a little late in posting for your 'first time,' but I do hope all went well and that you had a great and very special time.