As a male, what if i am not in the mood?? We are not stallions, what happens then??

I get my stallions made into geldings!!!!!!!!

OMG...forgive me, but I am such a smartass at times and I just can't control myself even though your asking a serious question!!!!!!!!
I deserve any and all bashing I may get.......

But what if "he is not there" ... could happen as it happens to u.

ROFL BIBI


If you're not in the mood once in a while, that's normal. If it does affect your state of mind, etc. you should visit a doctor.

huh???????

It's called football.

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It's been known to happen. Usually the result of a particularly stressfull week or exhaustion. Nothing with any kind of pattern though. If it's happening more often than you feel comfortable with, or you can't pin down any possible reasons behind it...look into it.

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We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.

If you're not in the mood, you're not in the mood. Can't be helped. If it's often the case that the spirit is willing but the body isn't cooperating, well then you might want to talk to the doc.

If my guy's not interested and I'm absolutely desperate, sometimes he'll be a doll and help me get off (which, incidently, sometimes changes his mood...he does love listening to me). Other times, he just reminds me where we keep the vibrators.

But you shouldn't feel bad about it, not even Pixies are ready and willing 24/7.

G

sounds pretty simple...you don't have sex

Funny!

If you are not in the mood let her try to get you in the mood with a BJ while watching football.

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DAM THE MAN!

A man who's not in the mood? Isn't that the ultimate oxymoron??!

Ok ok. So, if I'm in the mood and he's not, I either wait or I take care of it myself, no big deal. But he can watch if he wants to...

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It's no trick loving somebody at their best. Love is loving them at their worst.
~Tom Stoppard~


It isn't premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
~George Burns~


As bad as I am, I'm proud of the fact that I'm worse than I seem.
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Happens all the time in our house. I just try to tease him all day (glimpses of something sexy, a tantalizing kiss, maybe a little butt squeeze or some slow dancing) and hope for the best. SOmetimes it actually works ~~ other times I end up taking care of it myself after he goes to bed. Either way, it's all good. It just sucks that I happen to be the one with the HUGE libido in our house. LMAO, but you all knew that, right?

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Got to luv remotes. All you need is a beer iv at the same time. bliss!

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Can I watch, flutelady?

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I can't get through to her 'cause it doesn't permit
But I'm gonna give her everything I've got to give.

I hear your sweet voice calling
out my name
As I stare from a six foot cell
And from beyond I heard the words
Deceptively Yours

Yes you may... anything else you'd like to watch?

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Dear Lord, I pray for wisdom to understand my man, love to forgive him, and patience for his moods. Because Lord, if I pray for strength, I'll beat him to death. AMEN


It's no trick loving somebody at their best. Love is loving them at their worst.
~Tom Stoppard~


It isn't premarital sex if you have no intention of getting married.
~George Burns~


As bad as I am, I'm proud of the fact that I'm worse than I seem.
~A. DiFranco~