ever since i started masterbating (age 13 or so), i've been doing it more and more... lately it seems like thats all i've been doing lately... when i wake up i first cum in the shower, then clean myself off. during the school day, my mind is on sex and inbetween classes i frequently have to masterbate so i can concentrate on my next class without looking at the teacher or students and not paying attention to the lesson. i've even started spending breaks at work getting off, and when i don't have classes or work, i spend almost all my time masterbating and never getting anything done.. its become even harder to control since i learned i can suck my own cock, since it feels so increadible...and leaves both hands open for typing..any ideas?

Welcome to Pixies, Tiger_boy....

Well, you say this has been ever since you started masturbating. Well, the fact that you masturbate has nothing to do with it - since 13 your hormones have kicked in and made you horny.
This is perfectly normal.
What is NOT normal is having to get off between classes, or during work. When your sex drive interferes with your ordinary life, you're probably not putting things in perspective.

Everybody gets horny, and most of us can be horny for a whole day, or several days at a time. The trick is how you deal with that horniness. You've taught yourself one simple lesson: if you're horny, you need to get off. That's crap, quite frankly. If you're horny, try toughing it out for a change! FORCE yourself to concentrate on your work or whatever you're doing.

Now, rest assured I am not saying masturbation is bad or anything stupid like me. Lord knows I masturbate at least once a day! But I don't let it interfere with my work.

Stop making excuses, Tiger. If you feel you are masturbating too much, then stop. Any addiction you have is entirely in your head.

Sorry if this advice seems a little harsh - but it seems to me you need to decide how much of a priority in your life you're going to let orgasm become.

Good luck Tiger_boy, hope this helps!
CasperTG

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Ditto to what Casper said... listen to the smart man

I agree too...... I think there is something to be said for pent up sexual tension.....It can be very motivating. It's all about self control. Try delayed gratification.....the results can be so much more intense!

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Tiger_boy---I think that I'm qualified to address your problem because I finally admitted to myself,that I have what I believe is
called an addictive personality.You have to confront the things,
that are controlling your life.Tomorrow will be 10yrs6mo since I stopped drinking alcohol.When I started drinking,beer cost about
the same as soda.I loved beer&didn't like soda that much,so I
thought"Why not?"In everything,sex,drink,drug use,etc.things
accelerate and pretty soon,control your life,altho you don't realise
it.This doesn't only include masturbation.I have been doing that,
at least,once a day since I was 15.I'm 58 now.You have to put the
priorities in your life first and face the others head on.I still look
forward to masturbating daily but priorities come first.(pun unintended) Irish
P.S.Advice offered thru experience!

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May I suggest an alternative.....................Become a Donor at your Local Sperm Bank. Hey.............there's good money in it too.

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i should look into this donor shit, i think...........

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Tiger_boy

Masterbating is a normal way of exploring your sexuality, getting your rocks off and just generally feeling good.

What you are doing is not wrong, but maybe you are using it as an excuse not to seek other relationships. It's hard to get a knock-back from your own hand.

Until you find who or what you are really seeking, you'll be stuck in this rut.

Time and the right partner will put this all in perspective.

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How do you type and suck at the same time ,do you have eyes in the back of your head or what??

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Tiger-boy

I agree with all of the above.

You are risking getting kicked out of classes, work and possibly a crminal charge.

And you are making wanking your norm, sex may not be able to live up to your five fingers.

Nothing wrong with wanking, except like all things in moderation and some pleasures are best delayed and taken slowly,

Most importantly is this habit or addiction? Both can be changed - but fisrt you have to admit to yourself, and cut the crap on too horny, and then identify why - face the monster, you may not alwaus win, but a draw is good enough.


Or get a partner to do it for you and slowly and not between or in classes, heck if you get a partener try sex!

good luck

Wildeye

my friend swait can suck his own cock...o_0;

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ROFLMAO....

quisath.. at the rate that this guy masturbates... he would populate the entire state of Tx in less than a year


I urge prioritizing your life.. and allowing yourself time to have fun.. instead of your "fun" controlling your life..

ROFL.. Wombat.. is it possible that when you make such a hysterical comment that you pm me BEFORE I come across it on my own.. it might save me from having to wipe the soda off my keyboard. Me & my keyboard thank you in advance

I know that this thread is meant to be serious.. and altho I do symathize with such a delemia.. I can't help but find myself in hysterical laughter at some of the posts..

Tiger-boy... if you can suck your own cock... I am actually amazed you bother to go outside.. not so sure that many men could refrain from entertaining themselves all day long


giggle..

I still say.. prioritize and moderation.. and PLEASE don't get addicted to pleasuring yourself orally.. or you may discover you don't WANT a woman. YIKES.

The bad side is:Think of all the support payments!Millions of
paternity suits. Irish

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