ok. ive got a small problem, and this is probably a re-hash of alot of other threads, but her goes. a girl and i have been fooling around, and i really wanna seal the deal but eating her out like no one's business, but, ive only done it once before. The one time i did do it, i thoroughly enjoyed it and dont really see what all the fuss is about, but yeah...im babbling like a monkey in a tree, in short, ladies if you have any tips that could help get this girl be puddy in my hands by the end of the night, it would be much appreciated. thanks folks.

try this thread posted by PointGuard
http://pixies-place.com/forums/show...=&threadid=7781

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Okay, I know that legend posted a former thread up, so I don't know if this piece of advice was in it.....don't try to use you're tounge like your dick.

wait just one second...I love it when my partner darts his touge in and out of my vagina. Ask your lady friend what she likes...get her all hot and wet and I'm sure she'll spill, afterall , it's for her benifit
happy pussy eating
Cheers!

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Blue_Eyes is right. I was just stating what my girl-friend likes. Blue_Eyes is a woman, so take the advice from her

It really depends on the partner but I'd start by licking and kissing thighs and gently and slowly start on her clitoris. You proceed from there and watch her reaction. Experiment, try something for a few moments and if it's obviously getting her hot and bothered, perhaps speed it up slowly but surely until she climaxes.

I quess I was lucky cause I had a couple of lesbians teach me how to eat pussy when I was in high school. The best advice I could give is lots of teasing on the outer lips, inserting tounge is always good, but the one that takes time to perfect is licking the clit. All women like it in different directions. The fastest way to find out which way your woman likes is to (using your tounge) write the alphabet on her clit paying attention to which strokes she reacts to the best. Using the alphabet you cover all directions.

Let us know how it cums out.

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My girl is bowlegged, cause I like to eat with my hat on.

well I can tell you what I like, can't promise it'll work for your girl. from the experience I've had with guys going down on me, it takes time to perfect.

the girl has a HUGE part in her pleasure actually, she has to be really concentrated and into it, feeling totally comfortable with her partner. if you sense she's tense or not really into it, you can relax her by telling her how she tastes really good and how you love doing that to her. when her part of the deal is made - meaning, when she's fully calm and concentrated on her pleasure, then you could start getting physical.

personally, at first, I very much like the tease of kissing all around the area, it really builds it up nicely. after that I like it when everything is being licked at first, and then concentrated on my clit. i like it being sucked really hard, but thats just me. I don't like it when they're sticking their tongue in me exploring, it feels really odd and not quite right.

make sure you dont keep changing what you're doing, you oughtta concentrate on one thing that makes her feel good and keep it at, changing your rhythm until she cums. being all over the place the whole time is no good and will not make her cum, perhaps just feel good.

Anyway, I prefer his finger on my clit better, much more powerful and effective

If you've ever talked to me in chat...and I know one guy in particular who should KNOW what I'm about to say by heart. Keep your teeth off of the clit! Nibble anywhere around it but whatever you do...if you don't want to get hurt...ESPECIALLY after that first clitoral orgasm......


DON'T BITE THE CLIT!

(repeat that...its your mantra) "Don't bite the clit. Don't bite the clit. Don't bite the clit."


And someone out there may say, that I'm stating the obvious, but if thats the case then someone go back and tell that to every man that's ever ate my pussy please.

Just take your time ask her what feels good and no matter what don't give up,using fingers inside well for me anyways works wonders and a nice n slow tounge tease.

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I am still working up to my wife being comfortable enough with me licking her to cum. She's only cum once this way, and that was from a woman's tougue. (She has serious anxiety over any oral contact, including kissing beyond a peck, due to abuse as a child.)

A couple of nights ago when she was on top, I asked her if I could slide down to taste her. I made my tougue flat and moved it only a little as she moved over me. She came closer to orgasm than ever before this way, and later remarked with a bit of surprise "That felt pretty good!" So I'm encouraged to continue, because I love it and I know she will too!

Woody
ps
Yes, I was jealous.
No, she couldn't describe what our hottie neighbour friend did down there.
Yes, she is very reliably orgasmic otherwise.
Yes, we should have our friend over more often!

I totally agree, for myself, with what Vampiress had to say. I want to be sucked hard, and I don't want the rhythm changed at all as I'm building, and, of course, especially when I am about to come. My only addition to what she said would be to finger my G-spot at the same time; that's a big-O guarantee!

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Communication is the key.

There were times when milady found that a tongue anywhere near her clit was just too much to be enjoyable. That put a crimp in my diet until I discovered that once a finger or two was in her and sliding around comfortably, she was open to almost any amount of stimulation and for as long as I liked (hours & hours!).

Try this if she is especially sensitive; it might work for you as well.

Just to be kind of different from some of the other ladies, I'm WAY too sensitive to want anything too abrasive on my clit. The idea of having it sucked hard has got me cringeing in pain already!

The point is we're all different and my advice is to start off gently and let it build up but for God's sake if you seem to be doing something right, don't stop it!!!!

As other ladies have said, it's all about rhythm and repetition. If you change your strategy half way through, the chances are you're going to end up right back at the beginning again.

Oh and let her know that it's ok for her to pull your hair, clamp her thighs around your head and generally try to smother you to death. It's far more easy to cum if you can let go and do what comes naturally!

And just bear in mind that there are some women out there who just plain aren't into oral, so it's not always a case of 'sealing the deal'. If it isn't her bag, don't fret or take it personally - it's just that different things please different people.

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Has anyone tried this?

Place you tongue firmly to the skin just above the anal. You then move you tip upwards taking approx 30 seconds to reach your goal. When you start to enter in the pussie area, you keep your tongue tip nice and straight and go in as deep as you can without causing any discomfort.

Like A.K.`s said, this would be by working in, probably do this about 3 times and progressively increase the speed while starting to massage the anal area. Then I tease with my fingers and then eat until the cows come home.

I always get my young lady to release by moving her around and keep asking her to do what she wants. She loves me placing a couple of fingers in while I lick her ass. I have no problems with any thing she wants. This is her moment and make her feel like it is.

I really need to go and wake her.......