So the only way everyone else can see a shoutbox is for the mod not to be able to see it?

How is the boss supposed to issue orders and be in charge if they have no idea what the hell is going on around them? Never mind...answered my own question! I see it in action every day!

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Though I am different from you,
We were born involved in one another.

For it was not into my ear you whispered, but into my heart. It was not my lips you kissed, but my soul.

Complete surrender should not just come at moments in which one faces overwhelming odds, but in the calm when it seems one is personally in complete control of one's life.