When I was someone's first, I didn't even think about it in those terms. I just knew that this was my steady boyfriend and that our foreplay up to that point was just not enough to satisfy us anymore. It was not that big a deal as far as the deflowering itself goes. Plus, at my age, I'm lucky to even remember the details.

So, I don't care if I am or was somebody's first on anything (virginity, anal, BJ, whatever), I am just looking to be somebody's last.

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