I have the same problem alot of times...I find when waiting a few days for sex (yes I know horrible thought) helps me to be tighter and not as wet. AS far as a postiton goes, try laying on your back your legs hooked over his arms or shoulders. Tha works for good deep penetration. Also another fun thing to try is: middle of the night or early morning sex. He should be somewhat more swollen (if you will) and you tighter. Plus I am sure he wont mind waking up to your riding him.

~babybunny~

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