Originally Posted by AZRedHot

I find if you want to save your knees and wrists, a modified doggy, turned 45 degrees so that you're on your side and your thighs operate much like a safety gate on an amusement park ride against your lover (male, I'm assuming here) works really well. It gets all the good parts, you don't tend to slide as much across the bed with every thrust, you can look each other in the eyes, and your hand is free to roam his body instead of holding yourself up, and he can reach your boobs. I use this position primarily because I have orthopedic problems, but as a big woman, I thought I'd chime in.