I (although female) am marrying that guy who was my best friend, the only way to handle it is to offer that you appreciate her more than any other girl and want to be with her.... point out what you have that the other guy doesn't ...like you know her menstrual cycle or the way her hair flips out on one side....and point out you love her anyway. A women needs to realize that the one for her is the one that's seen her at 6 am/piss ass drunk/after rolling in a mudpuddle and still appreciates her.

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See the happy moron, he doesn't give a damn. I wish I was a moron--My God! Perhaps I am!!