Do you consider yourself to be dominant or are you more submissive by nature? Do you exhibit that trait in your entire life, or just sexually? Is it possible to be both?

For me, it isn't a simple explanation. In my professional life, I am probably perceived to be dominant and in control. In my personal life, I have always been dominant. That being said, because I have been celebate (and self reliant) for so long, I have a strong need to be submissive, to let go of the pressure of being in control and giving that "power" to someone else.

It makes me wonder if it is common for someone who appears to be in control to want to be submissive sexually.

Kisses. Again, looking forward to hearing your thoughts!