04-24-2007, 03:50 AM
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Little Wild One
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Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Texas
Posts: 2,248
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Originally Posted by cherrypie7788
I am so nervous and worried over so many things....is my kid going to be "normal", healthy, happy...most of all, I'm worried over bringing a little ME into the world 
My boyfriend and I looked at condos today. I have the option of either moving back to TN or staying here. Honestly, I'd be better off going back to TN because I have a house there...but I'm away from him  I have to try to take things one day at a time, because I'm already feeling so overwhelmed and I'm only two months along. |
Is it not an option for him to move with you? I know that is a hard decision but if you do move my advised is think about what is best for you and your baby. oh congrats by the way. And to be honest with you it is not that difficult to be away from someone that you love when your pregnant. This is from experience. I walked out on my ex husband (due to his cheating) when I was 3 weeks pregnant and with an 18 month old in tow also. I was so upset but worrying if I had the flu and taking care of a toddler kept my mind at peace. Then when I really found out I was pregnant well I was so caught up in that so it made it easier because I wasn't always wondering where he was or what he was doing. I know my situation is diffrent than yours but I would at least talk with him about it. Moving that is.
Again...my best advise is to do what is best for you and the baby.
And also even though things are fine now...get custody papers as soon as you can. Just in case something happens later on. Working at the PD I see alot of boyfriend/girlfriend situation and that end up spliting after they have the kid. It then gets ugly and hateful instead of what is best for the kid.
But most of all enjoy it. Make memories. And treat yourself like a queen for the next nine months.
Natalie
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