That's good news! I missed out on the discussion during the first go around...

something that my brother did with his ex that seemed like a nice way of keeping things vibrant was to go celebrate a monthly anniversary. They got married on, well the number date isn't important, but say, the 10th. The 10th of every month was the evening that they went out on an 'anniversary date'. Maybe not a surprise hotel check in but it was a night just for them to do something.